One of the most beneficial and life changing
experiences for the client is to find and integrate a lost
part of the self and return that part to the person to
achieve healing wholeness.
Sometimes it is not possible for
a client to find those missing parts during normal session
work. We can detach and dissociate so completely during
times of stress and upset as children that part is
lost to us. We are unaware not only of the event that caused
us to separate but that there is even a missing part.
These soul parts hold great gifts as well as opportunities
to heal the past and move forward to the next step.
There are two ways of working with
this aspect of healing. Both have huge benefits although
it is, in my experience, far more beneficial for the client
to find the fragmented part themselves.
In the first method, having induced a state of relaxation
and altered consciousness, the client journeys to find
the missing fragment and the time and place when and where
it left.
This fragment can be experienced
as a stone, a knife, a cone or some kind of object as
it ‘flipped out’ of
the person.
The fragment, having fully expressed
itself, is then integrated using a breathing technique
known as Quantum Dynamics.
I have found this process to be astounding in its positive
results and my clients endorse this wholeheartedly.
The second method that is sometimes
appropriate for the client, is when the therapist can
journey on the client’s
behalf, to retrieve these missing parts whilst giving a
commentary so that the client is involved in the process.
This is known to be a shamanic process.
It also has huge healing value for the client and often
a trauma can be faced more easily this way.
INNER CHILD HEALING
This is an aspect of Soul Retrieval
but utilizes other methods. Inner Child work can be done
whilst in a light hypnotic state or whilst fully aware,
through dialogue.
It involves
connecting with those parts of us that separated during
our lives when times were stressed or too difficult for
us to cope with and we perhaps felt that we had to do it
alone. Inner child work is interwoven into all the processes
and is seen as an integral part of healing.
This is a large and involved subject
on which there is much literature. Please
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